i suppose closure is one of the painful things about relationships that each of us is unwilling to do. either we don’t know how to approach the other party we’d hurt or are hurting, or really, we love living in the world of escapism. admittedly, escaping is the easiest way out, but not for long. from time to time, it comes back to haunt you in varying degrees. but many times, we are just afraid of having to face the other party again; and fear in love, is oftentimes the evildoer, the cause of many heartbreaks, and the prevention of absolving wrongs.
some of us learn to let go, to do a closure with our own injured souls to find our own cure and move on with our lives. it takes time, but it is done ultimately; when it is done, you surprise yourself with how much better you feel, how light your soul feels after the heavy weight of words, which have been pushing you down for so long, are finally lifted. closure is like nipping the bud of a blossoming hate you start to grow for him or her after a failed relationship.
or sometimes, when he or she dies and leaves a hollow in the hearts of his or her beloved.
kop the above paragraph from someone's blog...
is that what you are feeling? i guess i had no way of knowing... really... still feeling confused and insecure...
